Reflections on my mom...not too sappy don't worry!
My mother has been gone for a long time; most that know me remember my mom very well and miss her dearly. She passed away when I was sixteen (16) years old after a long battle with cancer. Some days I need only look to my own daughter to be reminded of how old I was....she is now the same age I was when I lost her. Growing up in my family was not easy for me. Don't worry, this won't be a rant about how horrible things were - because they weren't always that way. No, growing up as the only daughter in a house full of boys wasn't easy, but as an adult with my own daughter I realize it wasn't easy for a reason. My mother kept a fairly tight grip on the things that I did, the people I was able to hang out with and the what/where I was at pretty much any given moment. While it seemed that my brothers could do as they pleased with little to no oversight, I was set to abide by a different set of rules. As a teenage girl, it ...